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INTIMACY with IMPOTENCE ISBN: 0-7382-0789-6
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INTIMACY with IMPOTENCE The Couple’s Guide to Better Sex after Prostate Disease

by Ralph & Barbara Alterowitz
Foreword by Donald S. Coffey, Ph.D., Professor and Director of Urological Research, The Johns Hopkins Medical Institution
Introduction by Dr. Arthur L. Burnett, Director, Male Sexual Health Clinic, The Johns Hopkins Medical Institution

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Erectile dysfunction is a frequent consequence of prostate cancer and other prostate disease treatment. Though unwelcome and embarrassing, it doesn’t have to end a couple’s sex life.

Intimacy with Impotence gives couples cause for hope and includes:

  • a discussion of impotence in lay terms
  • information on the commercial therapies and medications both available and being researched now.
  • practical advice about lovemaking—from getting in the mood to commonsense suggestions to erection-less satisfaction.
     
  • An Opportunity to Regain Intimacy and  Breaking the ED Mindset
  • Facts About Impotence: Causes of Erectile Dysfunction, Sexuality, Impotence, and Age, The Effects of Prostate Cancer; and more
  • Talking with Your Partner: Improving the Quality of the Relationship, Effective Approaches to Handling, Differences; and more
  • Reviving Loving: Relearning & Creating a Loving Environment, Making Desire Happen, Pleasing a Woman, Being Creative; and more
  • Sensual Sex: What Sensual Sex is All About, Getting in the Mood, Sensual Arousal, and more
  • Getting in Shape: Eating Right, Exercising
  • Talking with Your Doctor: Preparing to Discuss Sexual Dysfunction, Getting the Most from the Meeting, and more
  • Commercial Therapies and Medications: Understanding the Psychological Side Effects of Treatment, The List of Treatments Surgery Options, and more
  • Non-Approved and “Off Label” : Treatments, Combination Therapies, Off-Label Drug Usage, Herbal Supplements and Dietary, Supplements, and more
  • Putting It All Together: Romeo and Juliet, Napoleon and Josephine, Bill and Jill
  • Appendices: Medications, Manufacturers of Erectile Dysfunction, Products, Resources, References and Further Reading

About the Authors: The founding vice-chair and former Director of the National Prostate Cancer Coalition, Ralph Alterowitz is currently the President of the Education Center for Prostate Cancer Patients. Barbara Alterowitz is a marketing executive with an international technology firm.
They live in Potomac, Maryland. more and photo .....

Critical Acclaim for Intimacy with Impotence:

“It is clear that the Alterowitzes understand the human side of sexuality and have made an important contribution to the study of ED for both husband and wife. It’s for everyone who yearns to embrace sex with understanding, caring, and insight to achieve not just good sex, but great sex. - James Lewis Jr., Ph.D., Executive Director, The Education Center for Prostate Cancer Patients

"A must read for couples dealing with intimacy issues. Literally gives partners a new lease on life, living a closer, more loving and satisfying relationship. Written in non-clinical language that tells it like it is, or could be. Thank you, Ralph and Barbara, for helping couples deal with a very private and sensitive subject." - April Becker, President, Prostate Cancer Communication Resource, Inc.

“Where else are these issues addressed, survivor to survivor, in such a delicate and compassionate manner? The Alterowitzes have made a pioneering effort to to illuminate this topic in a sensitive manner.” - Donald S. Coffey, Ph.D., Professor and Director of Urological Research, The Johns Hopkins Medical Institution

“The main emphasis of Intimacy with Impotence centers on regaining and strengthening the experience of lovemaking in the context of the relationship. This current edition of Intimacy with Impotence remains highly informative and educational. As the field of sexual medicine has evolved in recent years, the book offers an accurate review of current treatment options for preserving, restoring, and promoting sexual health.” - Dr. Arthur L. Burnett, Director, Male Sexual Health Clinic, The Johns Hopkins Medical Institution

“Written by two loving people I’ve observed for years in joyous relationship, Intimacy With Impotence will guide any cancer victim and his partner, out of dark shadows of disturbing change and uncertainty, into the bright sunlight a life of renewed possibilities together. Neal Peirce, Columnist, Washington Post Writers Group

“In Intimacy with Impotence: The Couples Guide to Better Sex after Prostate Disease, the authors, Ralph and Barbara Alterowitz venture down a road where only the brave dare tread. Rather than passively accepting the proposition that intimacy will suffer or, at best, barely survive the side effects of prostate cancer treatment, the authors make the case that a couple’s sex life realistically can be improved despite the loss or lessening of certain physical functions. Their arguments and knowledge are most convincing. For couples with an open mind and a generous spirit this book can help transform victims into loving individuals with a renewed zest for living. - Jess Rifkind, Prostate cancer survivor and retired management consultant.

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